Tuesday, June 2, 2015

The Bill Cosby Effect

Bill Cosby is a wonderful person. He is a humanitarian, a philanthropist, a mentor, a humorist with great wisdom and insight.

 

He is also a creep. He did rotten, criminal, horrid things to certain people when there were no witnesses to his actions, when he could get away with them.

 

If you believe that he could not possibly have done the awful things of which he is accused because he clearly has done so much genuine and sincere good, you are kidding yourself.

 

If you recognize that he certainly did do the awful things, but believe that removing his good work from the public record is an appropriate response to that reality, you are as dishonest and foolish as he is.

 

His awful behavior does not invalidate his excellent behavior. His excellent behavior does not exonerate him from his awful behavior.

 

Deal with each for what they are. There are people like this in all walks of life. They deserve to be treated appropriately for ALL of their actions. There is clearly something very wrong with Bill Cosby’s brain that allowed him to act in the despicable way that he has. Maybe the very good person that exists alongside the mean and shitty person is the pathway to redemption and change.

 

I think it’s too late for Bill Cosby. His celebrity and wealth is too heavily invested in his lies. The criminal nature of his ugly behavior is too much of a legal liability for him to admit to his actions to seek forgiveness and get the therapy he requires.

 

But, for the other Bill Cosbys in this world, the ones that so many family and friends know as wonderful people... when something leaks out from a long silent victim of theirs... take heed. Don’t be so quick to deny the possibility of selective and secretive rotten behavior. They need help as much as their victim does.